This & That
Point out anything, near or far, and ask for it out loud in Spanish.
Spanish splits distance three ways where English has two: este = near me (este libro es bueno), ese = near you (ese libro es tuyo), and aquel = far from both of us (aquel edificio es alto). Each set agrees in gender and number — este/esta/estos/estas, ese/esa/esos/esas, aquel/aquella/aquellos/aquellas — and the masculine plural is estos, never estes. Once the noun is clear you can drop it entirely: quiero éste, no ése — I want this one, not that one. That last move is what makes shopping, ordering and pointing things out feel effortless.
Below: the phrases that put all three distances to work, the slip-ups that give beginners away, and a way to practise them out loud in a real exchange — no flashcards, no fill-in-the-blanks.
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Regional Spanish
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The part no drill site can do
Carla
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There are no picture drills here and nothing to match up. In the This & That lessons you talk, and Carla keeps making you point at the world: she holds up two choices and you pick out loud — quiero éste, prefiero ése. She names something near you, something near her, something across the street, and you label each one: este, ese, aquel. Then she springs an unknown on you — ¿qué es esto? — and you answer with eso es…, in the moment, until the three distances stop being a chart and start being a reflex.
Blank mid-sentence and nothing bad happens — she waits. That's the practice, without unnecessary judgement.
Finish the 4 lessons and This & That is yours — earned, not given.
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Quick answers
Distance from the speaker. Este = near me, ese = near the person I'm talking to, aquel = far from both of us, often visible in the distance: este café está caliente, esa mesa es grande, aquella montaña es bonita.
Estos — always. Estes doesn't exist in Spanish. Say estos libros son nuevos, estos zapatos son míos. The same goes for esos and aquellos.
They're the neuter forms, for unknown or abstract things that have no gendered noun yet: ¿qué es esto? (what is this?), eso es interesante (that's interesting), aquello fue increíble (that was incredible).
Use the demonstrative alone once the noun is clear: quiero éste, no ése (I want this one, not that one), me gusta ésta, prefiero aquél. You'll see them written with or without the accent — both are understood everywhere.
Este and ese cover about 90% of daily use. Aquel earns its keep when you want to stress distance — aquella casa es bonita, that house way over there — or nostalgia in time: aquellos tiempos eran otra cosa (those times were something else).
