Hand things over, spill secrets, make promises — both pronouns in place, out loud.
The order is always indirect before direct: me lo dio ayer — she gave it to me yesterday — never lo me dio. When le/les would collide with lo/la/los/las, it turns into se: se lo dije a mi hermana, never le lo dije. Placement follows the verb form: both pronouns go before a conjugated verb or negative command (no me lo des ahora), and attach to the end of affirmative commands, infinitives and gerunds with a written accent — dámelo, voy a dártelo mañana, estoy diciéndotelo en serio. When se is ambiguous, add a clarifier: se lo dije a ella.
Below: the everyday chunks these pronouns build, the mistakes that mark you as a textbook learner — and a way to make them automatic by using them in a live conversation, not a substitution drill.
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Regional Spanish
Textbooks teach one word. Locals use several — pick your region's and stay consistent.
| English | Mexico | Argentina |
|---|---|---|
| can you pass it to me? | ¿me lo pasas? | ¿me lo pasás? |
| pass it to me! | ¡pásamelo! | ¡pasámelo! |
| tell it to me | ¡dímelo ya! | contámelo |
Watch out
The part no drill site can do
Carla
Your grammar teacher for this pack
No flashcards, no fill-in-the-blank pronoun tables. In the Tag Team lessons you talk — favors, borrowing, secrets, sending things — and Carla keeps setting up moments where the double pronouns are the natural move: she asks about a gift and you answer se lo regalé; she wants the story and it's te lo juro, fue así. Then she flips a command on you — dámelo becomes no me lo des — until the accent shift and the pronoun swap happen without you thinking about them.
Blank mid-sentence and nothing bad happens — she waits. That's the practice, without unnecessary judgement.
Quick answers
Indirect before direct, always: me lo, te la, nos los. Me lo dio = she gave it to me. The two pronouns also stay together — never split them around the verb.
Spanish refuses two l-pronouns in a row. Before lo/la/los/las, le and les both become se: se lo dije a mi hermana, not le lo dije.
On its own it's ambiguous — him, her, you, or them. Add a clarifier when it matters: se lo dije a ella, se lo expliqué a ellos, se las envié a usted.
Affirmative commands take them attached, with a written accent to keep the stress: dámelo, díselo cuanto antes. Negative commands put them back in front: no se lo digas a nadie.
Both are correct and mean the same thing. With an infinitive or gerund you can attach the pronouns (voy a dártelo) or put them before the conjugated verb — two valid positions, pick either.