The formulas that actually run a formal exchange — protocol, dissent, and the bridge back to common ground.
01 · Open the room
Permítanme, antes de nada, agradecer la hospitalidad de esta casa y la oportunidad de dirigirme a ustedes.
Allow me, first of all, to thank the hospitality of this house and the opportunity to address you.
Nothing substantive gets said until the room has been formally thanked. Skip this and the whole register reads as off.
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02 · Speak for your government, not yourself
Quisiera transmitirles el saludo cordial del Gobierno al que represento.
I would like to convey to you the cordial greetings of the Government I represent.
Even the greeting is institutional — you represent, you don't just show up.
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03 · Stating your position
La posición que mi Gobierno ha venido sosteniendo de manera consistente es la siguiente.
The position that my Government has consistently maintained is the following.
The sentence that switches you from small talk into the actual statement — everything after it is on the record.
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04 · The line that isn't optional
No hablo a título personal; represento una postura institucional claramente definida.
I do not speak in a personal capacity; I represent a clearly defined institutional position.
This distinction is the whole job — it's what lets you disagree hard without it becoming personal.
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05 · A question outside your mandate
Comprendo perfectamente la sensibilidad de la pregunta, y voy a responder con la mayor franqueza posible dentro de mi mandato.
I fully understand the sensitivity of the question, and I will answer with the greatest frankness possible within my mandate.
Dentro de mi mandato is doing quiet work here — it signals limits before you've said a word of the actual answer.
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06 · The elegant decline
Con el respeto que le debo, esa cuestión escapa al alcance de mis atribuciones actuales.
With all due respect, that question falls outside the scope of my current remit.
This refuses to answer without ever sounding evasive — the respect and the refusal arrive in the same breath.
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07 · Disagreeing without attacking
Lamento no poder compartir su lectura de los hechos, y me gustaría exponerle por qué con el debido respeto.
I regret that I cannot share your reading of the facts, and I would like to explain why with due respect.
Lamento leads, not niego — you frame dissent as regret, never as confrontation.
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08 · Naming exactly where you diverge
Coincidimos en el diagnóstico, pero discrepamos con firmeza en cuanto al remedio propuesto.
We agree on the diagnosis, but we firmly disagree regarding the proposed remedy.
Precision is the courtesy here — you concede what's true before you push on what isn't.
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09 · The bridge
Lo que nos une es mucho más de lo que nos separa, y eso no puede eclipsarse por desacuerdos coyunturales.
What unites us is much more than what separates us, and that cannot be overshadowed by circumstantial disagreements.
This turns a disagreement back toward the relationship — remembering to say it is the whole craft of diplomacy.
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10 · Closing the statement
Concluyo reiterando la disposición de mi Gobierno a continuar este diálogo con la seriedad que merece.
I conclude by reiterating my Government's willingness to continue this dialogue with the seriousness it deserves.
You close on willingness, not on the disagreement — even a hard session ends sounding constructive.
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11 · The formal sign-off
Quedo a su entera disposición para profundizar en cualquiera de los puntos tratados.
I remain entirely at your disposal to go deeper into any of the points discussed.
The ritual last line — it says the door stays open, no matter how the session went.
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